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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://blogs.msdn.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx</link><description>&amp;#160;&amp;#160;&amp;#160; As part of my quest to become a better consultant I am reading Gerald M. Weinberg's book Secrets of Consulting: A Guide to Giving and Getting Advice Successfully . It is quite controversial and provocative book. At the same time Weinberg</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Build: 61025.2)</generator><item><title>re: Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9065402</link><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 08:03:09 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9065402</guid><dc:creator>Jimmy May</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I am eager to hear more of Mr. Weinberg. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I'm distressed by the anecdote you shared regarding the Second Law. &amp;nbsp;The responses from the engineering &amp;amp; management teams struck me as unethical--if the project was over-scoped, so be it. &amp;nbsp;Competence should be rewarded, not punished. &amp;nbsp;Like you stated in your commentary to the First Law, the competent consultant will build his/her brand &amp;amp; get more gigs. &amp;nbsp;Another way to look at it is doing the right thing--&amp;amp; ripping off the customer by slacking for five months is never the right thing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Alik, I applaud your stretching yourself the way you do. &amp;nbsp;I'm fascinated that as an Architect you have the time to read as much as you do--&amp;amp; apply it such as you do here. &amp;nbsp;Thanks for sharing this great info!&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9065632</link><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 10:46:26 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9065632</guid><dc:creator>alikl</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Jimmy, great to hear you liked Weinberg's insights!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;Doing the right thing....&amp;quot; hmmm. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Tech should serve people and not the other way around we both agree on that, right?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what is &amp;quot;doing the right thing&amp;quot;?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I agree that ripping off the customer by slacking for five months is a bad choice, but there is so many choices in between....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Competent consultant must read the situation - both technical and human.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the end it is a people problem ;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So what are you optimizing? tech or people?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Competent consultant must find the optimum that does both to the max – and that's tough....&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>re: Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9066289</link><pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:23:09 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9066289</guid><dc:creator>Jimmy May</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Of course it's tough--if it were easy my Aunt Matilda would be doing it in her spare time, eh?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You're right about the choices in between--&amp;amp; I almost commented that I've yet to run into an app with a single performance issue. &amp;nbsp;If the stakeholders permitted, I would provide additional value by optimizing my solution, the rest of the app, &amp;amp; training my customers in the ways of performance-&amp;amp;-scalability.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;With regard to what I'm optimizing, it's the relatively rare person who is trainable. &amp;nbsp;So I stick with things I can change--myself. &amp;nbsp;(Ask my lovely bride, I may be a bit slow at times, yet I am eminently trainable. ;-) )&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I tend to agree with Mr. Weinberg--many problems are people problems. &amp;nbsp;As I reflect on my problematic engagements, it's clear that the biggest problems by far were people problems!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And this brings us back to your post on Dale Carnegie: &amp;nbsp;&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_new" href="http://practicethis.com/?s=dale+carnegie"&gt;http://practicethis.com/?s=dale+carnegie&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course, Dale Carnegie training is so much more than public speaking--it's people skills!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Speaking of trainable, Dale Carnegie training was one of the best things I ever did, for details:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_new" href="http://blogs.msdn.com/jimmymay/archive/2008/09/21/commencement-keynote-itt-technical-institute-indianapolis-9-20-2008.aspx"&gt;http://blogs.msdn.com/jimmymay/archive/2008/09/21/commencement-keynote-itt-technical-institute-indianapolis-9-20-2008.aspx&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9217036</link><pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 04:42:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9217036</guid><dc:creator>Biondi Tang</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;A positive view on &amp;quot;its always a people problem&amp;quot; could be &amp;quot;its always a communication problem&amp;quot;. &amp;nbsp;No matter how good a solution is, it takes time and effort to make the stakeholders understand and believe with confidence.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;On the other side, its also true. &amp;nbsp;It takes time and effort for the consultant to really understand the problems so that to provide a feasible solution.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Technical expertise is hard enough, communication is even harder...&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Three Laws Of Consulting By Gerald M. Weinberg</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9227810</link><pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 22:41:52 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9227810</guid><dc:creator>alikl</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Biondi!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Too true, too true.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Keeping your positive note …. I’d even go further calling it &amp;quot;it’s always a communication *challenge*&amp;quot; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;;) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;During last two weeks I witnessed the art of interpersonal communications. That was too educating and I learned a lot about interpersonal communications. I also learned a lot about influence without authority which is heavily based on the art of interpersonal communication.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Take a look at these two other posts of mine – its main theme is “speaking the language people understand”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_new" href="http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2007/03/22/security-language-that-every-one-understands.aspx"&gt;http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2007/03/22/security-language-that-every-one-understands.aspx&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel="nofollow" target="_new" href="http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/24/consulting-and-security-reviews-how-to-get-everyone-onboard.aspx"&gt;http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/24/consulting-and-security-reviews-how-to-get-everyone-onboard.aspx&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for your insights!&lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>Perception, Reality, &amp; Incrementally Tuning World-Class Applications</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/alikl/archive/2008/11/12/three-laws-of-consulting-by-gerald-m-weinberg.aspx#9299408</link><pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 21:28:34 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:9299408</guid><dc:creator>Jimmy May, Aspiring Geek:  SQL Server Performance, Best Practices, Productivity, etc.</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Performance &amp;amp;amp; the 20% Rule I was reading the post from Ed Glas , Make Your Performance Work Count:&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>