Thanks to Phil Ottowell (I think I relearn this trick every two or three years, posting here so I have a chance to remember it):
In VS add a breakpoint and specify the location as, for example {,,compluslm.dll}DllMain if you wanted to break when the compluslm.dll was loaded. For a specific function use the same syntax but specify the function name instead of DllMain.
Learn more about this syntax here:
http://msdn2.microsoft.com/en-us/library/wztycb7f.aspx