Wow.  Joel has really outdone himself on this one.  What a great post; this is another one to bookmark sports fans.  I'm seeing a larger number of customers interested in these scenarios and for good reason....I know,  I know, maybe I'm only 99.99999% objective.

Planning, Designing & Securing an Extranet and Internet Facing WSSv3 and SharePoint Server 2007 Environments

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