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Jeff Papiez - SQL Server Test Developer

My random thoughts, ideas, comments, and brain dumping ground.
Life moves pretty fast...

... and if we don't stop and smell the roses... ah who am I kidding. I'm not word sleuth. But I do know this. My wife and I had our first child, a cute little boy named Jacob, back in March. He's growing like a weed. I can hardly believe how fast they grow. Somedays I wish that he'd just grow faster so we could go do things together. Then again, I don't want to rush things. We live in a time where we expect everything to happen so quickly, often not wanting to wait for things any longer than absoletly necessary. I really hope I don't become one of those parents that expect my toddler to act as if they are all grown up and mature. Those people get under my skin. Kids need to be kids. They need to enjoy their childhood while they can, because before THEY know it they'll be old enough to where they have to attend school, go to work, and take on adult responsibilities. No sense in rushing that.

I sort of feel sorry for those children that happen to be super smart that are sent off to college when they are in their wee teen years. I didn't attend college until I was in my early twenties. Oh wait, I forgot about those 3 quarters I spent at the local Community College after High School, but those don't really count. Back to the topic at hand. Where was I? Oh yes.. smart kids and college. If Jacob (my son, from the first paragraph) were to be one of those brainiacs, would I send him to College? Um.. let me see.. NO. I would do everything I could to allow him to continue his education, but I wouldn't send him off until he was physically and emotionally ready for what a college campus had to offer.

I do look forward to seeing my son grow up and experience life. Seeing what he has been going through already has been a treat. I can only imagine what the future will hold.

Posted: Tuesday, August 17, 2004 6:27 PM by jpapiez
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Jerry Dennany said:

Congrats... Here's to a good future for you and yours...
# August 17, 2004 6:36 PM

don@ghostdev.ca (Don Newman) said:

I agree with you 100% as my own duaghter is 15 months old today. I find the easiest way to not expect her to grow up is to enjoy playing at her age. Stack up blocks, make faces, and just chase each other around. Why would I want her to be all grown up when I finally have an excuse to act like a kid?

As for the children going to college. I wouldn't want that either. She would not enjoy the experience since her classmates would be years older than her and having no friends would suck. Besides, why rush through school getting only 96% on everything when you can take your time and get 99%? Not to mention using the extra time to learn other skills.

It's funny. A couple years ago I barely thought about the following week, now I am already planning the following generation...
# August 17, 2004 7:39 PM

Sean Gephardt said:

I totally agree, as my youngest recently just turn two. You do have to "stop and smell the roses", because life can't be all work all the time.
# August 17, 2004 9:47 PM

Alex said:

Sounds good. When I attended junior high, I remember a little boy (I mean even younger than I was) who was always reading books during the pause. While we where chasing around the girls he was sitting somewhere, alone with his apple (the ones you can eat not the computers) an read some weird books, I'd never would have read in that age. (I think he was between 11 and 12 years old) Once I talked to him and asked what he's reading I was really surprised about the type of his articulation. It was totally weird and uncool, to describe it more detailed, he was sounding to me as a crazy scientist. Donno what that guy is doing today, probably he's pretty happy anyway, but he missed the fun at all...
# August 18, 2004 12:31 AM
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