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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://blogs.msdn.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx</link><description>It's late, do you know where your coder is? Really, it's a very good question. You think your spouse is sleeping next to you at night. They are not. They are awake, bleary, weary and barely lucid, secretly feeding their addiction. Yes, it is sad and depraved,</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Build: 61025.2)</generator><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91764</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 07:56:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91764</guid><dc:creator>Mike Schinkel</dc:creator><description>You found a woman that puts up with that?  If so, Bravo!  I wish I had. :(</description></item><item><title>RE: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91783</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 08:57:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91783</guid><dc:creator>oleg@tkachenko.com (Oleg Tkachenko)</dc:creator><description>Nice one...</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91794</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 09:18:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91794</guid><dc:creator>Nick</dc:creator><description>nice.  I'll have what your on please ;-)</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91838</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 11:59:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91838</guid><dc:creator>James Steele</dc:creator><description>I thought I was the only one. Thank God there are others!</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91883</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 13:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91883</guid><dc:creator>Denise Reis</dc:creator><description>Oh yes, I knew this already!  I pray for the day my husband comes up from the cold, dark, stinky basement and asks for a beer and plops down in front of the TV to watch the Packers play.  Heck I'd settle for a white wine spritzer and figure skating at this point!  I sit with a smile on my face nodding as I listen to him excitedly rant about .Net and how he got a (whatever you call it) down to .003 seconds from its previous 3.8!  I hug him and tell him I'm proud of him and he can do anything because I know that one day, that idea that's clawing and chewing its way out of his brain will make it out!  Yep, I love that coder of mine!</description></item><item><title>Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#91920</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 17:35:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:91920</guid><dc:creator>Mitch Rupp's .NET Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92087</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 17:38:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92087</guid><dc:creator>Robert Scoble</dc:creator><description>I totally grok this. Great post.</description></item><item><title>Real Geeks</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92093</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 20:46:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92093</guid><dc:creator>ISerializable</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>Real Geeks</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92197</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 23:03:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92197</guid><dc:creator>ISerializable</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92213</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 20:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92213</guid><dc:creator>Mun</dc:creator><description>Superb!  :-)</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92229</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2004 20:49:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92229</guid><dc:creator>Ken Robertson</dc:creator><description>I have my girlfriend realizes what she's getting into when we get married...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm there with Denise... my girlfriend has to put up with my descriptions of whatever I'm coding.  I always figure I'm boring her, but she likes it.  It is interesting to explain SQL databases or binary trees to her. :)</description></item><item><title>Live to Code</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92382</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 03:36:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92382</guid><dc:creator>Ramblings of a Code Monkey</dc:creator><description>Matt Warren does a good job of describing how I've been feeling as of late. While I haven't gone so far as to get up in the middle of the night to code, it's definitely been the case lately that...</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92404</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 01:21:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92404</guid><dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator><description>LOL! Denise that sounds *exactly* like me. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Night after night I listen to &amp;lt;a href=&amp;quot;&lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.milbertus.com/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;my"&gt;http://www.milbertus.com/&amp;quot;&amp;gt;my&lt;/a&gt; husband&amp;lt;/a&amp;gt; talk about how such and such works so much faster than his last app, and how cool .NET is, and about the next app he plans to create, and what he's going to use to create it. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I've learned to nod and smile a lot. I cheer him on too, but typically I'm not exactly sure what he's talking about. He'll sit at his computer coding away for hours on end, while the world passes him by. I'm just glad he has something that engages his mind and makes him so happy. :)</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92405</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 01:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92405</guid><dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator><description>Sorry about the malformed link. I wasn't sure if you had HTML in your comments or not. :)</description></item><item><title>Take Outs for 18 March 2004</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92447</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 06:06:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92447</guid><dc:creator>Enjoy Every Sandwich</dc:creator><description>You have been Taken Out! Comments about your posting in this link. Thanks!</description></item><item><title>Take Outs for 18 March 2004</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92457</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 06:14:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92457</guid><dc:creator>Enjoy Every Sandwich</dc:creator><description>Take Outs for 18 March 2004</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92524</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 06:46:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92524</guid><dc:creator>carlajsarmiento</dc:creator><description>Same here Denise &amp;amp; Melisssa. When he was still my boyfiend, I'm jealous with his computer since I can't simply tear him away from coding. I even thought of breaking up with him because he's weird. He would even program something  while driving(I heard him murmuring about a certain application), can you imagine that?&lt;br&gt;But we got married he never thought that I would really listen to him eagerly. One day he was smiling and said,&amp;quot;it's nice that you would listen to me about my job&amp;quot;, (the truth is, I don't understand anything that he's talking about). I just look at him straight in the eyes and said: I love you mahal! I'll support you with whatever that would make you happy. Now I know how talented he is. &lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92542</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 07:52:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92542</guid><dc:creator>Marauderz</dc:creator><description>I just hope our wives don't decide to form a Coder's Widows support group or something... &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;quot;Pry him off VS.Net now!&amp;quot;&lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Code and career</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92619</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 16:01:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92619</guid><dc:creator>Sandspace</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>Re: Real coders, real code</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92623</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 16:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92623</guid><dc:creator>ardent coder</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92640</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 13:43:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92640</guid><dc:creator>B</dc:creator><description>I love my wife and family. They mean the world to me. They do. But, friday night when my wife and kids are sleeping, which is always pretty early on a friday, I sneak away to the computer and I code, code, code, and code. Saturday morning comes and I'm always very hard to get out of bed :) I just freakin' love it. </description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92660</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 14:22:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92660</guid><dc:creator>Denise Reis</dc:creator><description>Hmmm... a Coder's Widows Support Group... interesting!  VERY interesting!</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92690</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 15:05:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92690</guid><dc:creator>David Cumps</dc:creator><description>Actually, your girlfriend or wife is the only thing keeping you away from your code mostly.....now imagine not having one. ouch, would be bad for health and sleep :p&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Lovely post!</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92747</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 16:49:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92747</guid><dc:creator>Matt Warren</dc:creator><description>The response to this post has been phenominal.  Thanks everyone for the feedback.  </description></item><item><title>DailyBytes.Add(</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92762</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 20:10:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92762</guid><dc:creator>Bob.Yexley.Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#92861</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2004 19:09:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:92861</guid><dc:creator>Guy Sofer</dc:creator><description>Yes, this is really the case&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Our code is our Art and we have the urge to make it feasible. I code for 8 years and I still have the thrill when I find a good idea for a software solution (even if it's likely that someone had already thought about it). Usually I write these ideas in notes next to me every time an idea raises in my mind. My wife find this writing notes behavior funny - but I enjoy it. Recently, I got rid of the writing notes habits because I bought my first PocketPC - so now I write my ideas there</description></item><item><title>Beautifully said</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#93161</link><pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2004 11:51:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:93161</guid><dc:creator>Brian LeRoux</dc:creator><description>It's now 4:50am here in Vancouver. My very patient wife is asleep downstairs while I tap away unaware of anything but an abstract castle in my mind. I'm stuck. I must be tired. I pause for a quick break and peruse my aggregator. Then I read this post and suddenly castle walls just dissolve. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Brilliant writing Matt. Its nice to know I'm not alone.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Good night all. :)</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#93203</link><pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2004 15:32:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:93203</guid><dc:creator>Russell Kelly</dc:creator><description>I am going to have my wife read this! This is just how I feel.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; Thursday Night/Friday morning was a perfect example of what you are talking about. I got out of bed at 11:30pm. Worked on my project till about 1:30am and then got up at 5am to work on it for an hour or so before I had to go to work. And sleeping doesn't stop the coding, I code the project in my sleep, and I am sure I am not alone when I say I will dream in code. </description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#93570</link><pubDate>Sun, 21 Mar 2004 21:52:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:93570</guid><dc:creator>David Cumps</dc:creator><description>And when you wake up, the first thing that jumps in your mind is some line of code.</description></item><item><title>Thoughts on .Net</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#95266</link><pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2004 17:47:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:95266</guid><dc:creator>Bryant Likes's Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>Thoughts on .Net</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#95420</link><pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2004 21:48:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:95420</guid><dc:creator>Bryant Likes's Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#96247</link><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2004 19:07:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:96247</guid><dc:creator>Omer van Kloeten</dc:creator><description>If you haven't read it yet, the Tao of Programming [1] is a good read.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;[1] &lt;a target="_new" href="http://www.canonical.org/~kragen/tao-of-programming.html"&gt;http://www.canonical.org/~kragen/tao-of-programming.html&lt;/a&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#96307</link><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2004 20:06:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:96307</guid><dc:creator>Matt Warren</dc:creator><description>I haven't read that, but I have read the Tao of Piglet.  I'm sure they are much the same. :-)&lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Lost in Translation</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#100935</link><pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2004 10:23:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:100935</guid><dc:creator>The Wayward WebLog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>So true...</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#106857</link><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2004 23:32:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:106857</guid><dc:creator>curry684</dc:creator><description>I completely recognize myself in this text. Coding is life. My girl puts up with it too, it's 2:31 AM right now over here and she's sleeping   :)</description></item><item><title>DailyBytes.Add(</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#123288</link><pubDate>Thu, 29 Apr 2004 23:31:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:123288</guid><dc:creator>Bob.Yexley.Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>Real coders, real code...</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#124936</link><pubDate>Mon, 03 May 2004 11:58:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:124936</guid><dc:creator>Geeqs.Net // Keiths Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>Real coders, real code...</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#125457</link><pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2004 07:15:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:125457</guid><dc:creator>Geeqs.Net // Keiths Blog</dc:creator><description /></item><item><title>re: Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#162412</link><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2004 14:41:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:162412</guid><dc:creator>zzwzBlog</dc:creator><description>Nice one...</description></item><item><title>Digiwar - the Yeep-blog &amp;raquo; Understanding your coder</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#224678</link><pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2004 17:17:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:224678</guid><dc:creator>TrackBack</dc:creator><description>Digiwar - the Yeep-blog &amp;amp;raquo; Understanding your coder</description></item><item><title>The Wayward WebLog : Real coders, real code.</title><link>http://blogs.msdn.com/mattwar/archive/2004/03/18/91749.aspx#8579687</link><pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 10:39:54 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">91d46819-8472-40ad-a661-2c78acb4018c:8579687</guid><dc:creator>Relationship Compatibility</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;It's late, do you know where your coder is? Really, it's a very good question. You think your spouse is sleeping next to you at night. They are not. They are awake, bleary, weary and barely lucid, secretly feeding their addiction. Yes, it is sad and depraved&lt;/p&gt;
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